Congrats guys!

 It’s been a while..

And the only way I could probably get this out is while drunk..

Anyways, congrats you two. I’m glad I wasn’t asked to be the best man… cos it would have taken me ages to make a speech cos I would have really taken a lot of thought and time into it. Oddly, I think you understand that.

I think what really encapsulated it is that when the photographer asked you who you think was the biggest “dickhead”, you pointed to me. It’s a joke and I know it, we both know it. We can share these jokes without any offense. If anything, it shows just how much we can get away with these kind of things with one another one while being serious when we need to. And in many ways that’s the essence of our relationship. 

To the bride, I know you  fall a lot but the groom will be there for you each and every step of the way, and I feel that’s what complements you. I’ve hung out with your groom on many outing and he is not infallible. He will put you first but please remember that he can fall too. When, and if he does, please be there for him. 

To the groom, when you said that she brings colours to your life, I had hoped that would be one of your answers. When we hang out and I ask you if you’re introverted or extroverted, you always confidently answer that you’re introverted. I agree, and I see that. You’re a happy guy that doesn’t complain. You take on what life comes at you, and you’re happy with what you have. And she adds to it in so many ways in her exterovertedness and her wanting to explore. 

Congratulations to you both. I couldn’t have thought of a better pairing.